Swooping in.
This is an observed phenomenon men are guilty of doing to their ex's. It is the random email, phonecall, or msn message that occurs after months of zero contact.
The female mind - with self-torture tendencies will possibly misinterpret the "swoop in" as a message with hidden intent.
"Could it be that after all these months, he still is interested in me?"
"He must like me to still write me such a lovely and sweet email."
"He's really opening up to me - it must mean something"
After years of experiencing the "swoop in", I conclude that it really should be translated as the guy just checking in. More often than not - it is more about him than you. He's just checking to see what's up, to see whether or not he's still 'got it'.
A natural response to a "swoop in" should be friendly but light banter. Some self-presevation is in order after all.
This is an observed phenomenon men are guilty of doing to their ex's. It is the random email, phonecall, or msn message that occurs after months of zero contact.
The female mind - with self-torture tendencies will possibly misinterpret the "swoop in" as a message with hidden intent.
"Could it be that after all these months, he still is interested in me?"
"He must like me to still write me such a lovely and sweet email."
"He's really opening up to me - it must mean something"
After years of experiencing the "swoop in", I conclude that it really should be translated as the guy just checking in. More often than not - it is more about him than you. He's just checking to see what's up, to see whether or not he's still 'got it'.
A natural response to a "swoop in" should be friendly but light banter. Some self-presevation is in order after all.
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